Our life is filled with choices every minute, hour, day, week, and month there are new choices to make. How do we know if we are making the right decision? Or is there a right decision to be made? Each choice we make has consequences good or bad.

How do you make your decisions? Is it based on facts? Or do you follow your gut feeling?

Recently, a good friend and I were talking about her decision to possibly have a second child. After she had her first child, she thought she was done having children, but as the years go by and seeing her friends have children, she is considering having another child.   She knows having a second child will cost more money, cause sleepless nights, and she will have to go through pregnancy and labor again. However, after spending time at her parents’ house in her hometown where her sister and brother live, cherishing the time with her siblings she is considering having another child.  She realized by only having one child, her daughter would never experience the sibling relationship she enjoys so much.